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At a point in Kute's life, he was following his father's footsteps to take his role, but then he realized that this path was not for him. He eventually realized that his life was supposed to take him on a different wellness journey. This wouldn't be the first time that this thought process allowed Kute to come to a revelation of what his mind and body were telling him.How to know when your relationship is OVER... or not.
With this practice, Kute is continuously learning to let go and accept what path is next for him to follow. When The Path Is Difficult Following your path can be so difficult with many obstaclesstruggles, and tests. However, just like they did for Kute, these moments prepare us for the people that we should be.
Part of letting go is just allowing yourself to trusting each step of the journey. Letting Go of Worry Why worry so much? Most of the time, we're afraid of what our destiny truly is, and we're afraid that we have to control everything. To let go of worry, we first have to be willing to surrender and trust the process.
When we're children, we're free to be just as we are and we trust right away and express ourselves however we want because we're unconditioned. But as we grow older, we become conditioned. Part of early-life conditioning is believing that we're not free and this keeps us from trusting other people and our own authentic voice.
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Conditioning tells us that we're a certain persona and so we try to figure out who we should be. This helps us avoid pain because we feel validated by society because our persona has been accepted. They may not have everything you need in a relationship, but they have a part of what you most need at that time in your life. As you embrace the lesson, you heal and become more open and ready to love more completely. They have come to help prepare you for your life partnership.
As you both have your own unique soul journeys and will both change with time.
The ultimate commitment is to LOVE itself. Then your relationship is held in a bigger context. And no matter what happens, or if the form of your relationship changes, your commitment to love remains.
When your commitment is to love, you become committed to finding the most authentic form and expression of relating between you that would allow the most love to be expressed.
This may mean you are together a whole lifetime, or it may mean 10 years. Committing to love is really committing fully to serving your partners soul growth. It not just about how long you stay together that determines success, although that can certainly be a part. When you love fully, you always win because you get the growth of opening your heart.
No one can take that opening away from you. Love is abundant and not limited to one person, as amazing as they may be. Sometimes we get so attached to a particular person being the one. You have visions of spending the rest of your life with them, you see children, you could never imagine being with anyone else.
It just may not be the right time yet, and there may be experiences that you both need to go through to better prepare you to be in relationship with each other.
If your relationship is meant to be, nothing will stop it. Let go and see.
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Real love requires surrender. And in letting go, you have the opportunity to open to bigger love beyond what you think should be. It might even sometimes feel like a cruel joke of the universe. Trust that you will love again, even if in the moment of letting go it seems far out. You heart is resilient and powerful beyond what you can imagine. There are galaxies exploding in your veins each second.
Be gentle and make the space for grief. Make the room for sadness. Knowing as you let yourself authentically feel your tears, it will wash away the old and open you to the new. Any moment you have the opportunity to share your heart in the most vulnerable way with another human being is a true privilege and blessing.
Think about it for a moment…. You have served each other. Even though it may not have worked out how you thought or wished it to, their soul was the one that chose to teach you the tough lessons.
Just think about the depth of love that their soul must have had for you to teach you those lessons. Ultimately you are letting go of that part of yourself. And opening to what is more right for you in love.